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Junior Dominic Minneti plays his guitar in his bedroom. His band, Gator, released their debut album “Gator – Man Eater,” on Oct 17.
Junior Dominic Minneti plays his guitar in his bedroom. His band, Gator, released their debut album “Gator – Man Eater,” on Oct 17.
April Choe

A new wave

Junior heals through music

Absent.

For four months, his seat was left empty. No whispers, no rumours. School continued like any other day. 

But for him, each day looked different — fluorescent lights overhead, puke-stained pillows on his bed and long hours filled with conversations, card games and returning nightmares. 

Junior Dominic Minneti is the bassist for the band Gator. While he continues to struggle with mental health, music has become an outlet for him. On Oct. 17, his band Gator released their first album, “Gator – Man Eater.” Over the past years, he has played at shows and with metal bands. 

 Six-year-old Dominic smiles for a photo wearing his baseball uniform at his game.
The beginning

Growing up, Dominic was an upbeat, extroverted child. At the time, he had little interest in music. He casually listened to mainstream pop music — a couple of Eminem songs and Ninja Turtle soundtracks. 

“He was great, the best boy ever,” Dominic’s father, Philip Michael Minneti II said. “He was sweet and kind. One word to describe him would [be] considerate.”

As he transitioned from elementary school to middle school, the COVID-19 pandemic led to virtual learning, and Dominic began to experience mental health challenges. His grades started to drop and he felt disconnected from himself and his identity. 

“I was taking influence from [different friend groups,]” Dominic said. “I was [asking myself,] ‘is this what I want to be?’ And that culminated into [a] weird blend where I wasn’t myself at all.”

The summer before eighth grade, Dominic found identity through music when his father introduced him to his favorite movie and album, “Pink Floyd: The Wall.” After years of adapting to those around him, he said the music connected him to who he was.

“[At first] he was pretty appalled; he didn’t like it,” Philip Minneti said. “A few months later, we watched it again and he was like ‘wait a second, I get it.’ He became obsessed with Pink Floyd. It took him from one band to another till [eventually he reached] ‘5000’ of them, it’s ridiculous.” 

 

Six-year-old Dominic smiles for a photo wearing his baseball uniform at his game. (Provided by Dominic Minneti)
A difficult start

Even though he felt a connection to music, he continued to struggle with his mental health in eighth grade. He began therapy in August 2023, and he and his father were searching for a psychiatrist and exploring options for medication. 

In July, the summer of eighth grade, Dominic became suicidal. 

In the search for help, Dominic went into inpatient care at the University of Behavioral Health of Denton (UBH) — a hospitalization program for mental health treatment. He described the experience as traumatic, and said he still holds trauma from it today.

“[It was] a very dark place, almost jail-like,” Dominic said. “It didn’t feel like a place where they showed you how good life is [but rather] how scummy life [can be.]”

After his time in inpatient care, ninth grade began, and things were taking a positive turn. But by November, Dominic said his mental health began to decline again.

“Suicide is a scale,” Dominic said. “I hoped that I [went] to sleep and [didn’t] wake up. I was at the [stage] where I viewed myself as a lesser human and thought that there was no point.” 

“A different route”

Dominic’s mental health continued to decline, and the weight of feeling hopeless became harder for him — he was overwhelmed. 

One morning before school in November, Dominic decided he was going to skip the day with the intent to take his life. Like usual, he packed his bag, pretending he was going to school. 

“I didn’t have too many thoughts,” Dominic said. “I said what I thought was [going to] be my last goodbye to a friend at the bus stop. I wasn’t [overwhelmed,] I [thought] I was going to get rid of everything [I was feeling.]” 

After walking away from the bus stop, he spent the morning searching for a building where he planned to take his life. Then, a security guard approached him, asking him to leave. Shortly after, Dominic called 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. He told the responder that he wanted help. 

They advised Dominic to return to school and report everything to the counselors. After reviewing his situation, he was admitted to inpatient care again, this time at Haven Behavioral Hospital in Frisco. 

Dominic described this time as a cycle; he felt he wasn’t making progress. He was then admitted to UBH, where he continued to manage his mental health. 

“It’s hard to say [the moment I realized something was going on,]” Philip Minneti said. “At that time, [I] didn’t think anything [of it, until] we got the first news of [what happened.]”  

After his stay in UBH for five days, Dominic entered partial hospitalization – a program where he attended group therapy during school hours. With his time in inpatient care nearing the end, the feeling that he wasn’t making progress resurfaced.

Recovery

Dominic was re-admitted to inpatient care after deeply cutting his arm not wanting to return to school. Although he experienced depressive episodes and self-harmed, in care, he had fewer thoughts of suicide and was determined to break the cycle. 

“I [told] myself, ‘I’m not doing this again,’” Dominic said. “My thought process was [either] ‘I’m finally going to go through with this’ or ‘I’m going to seek the help that I need.’ I chose to seek the help I needed.”

After returning to UBH for the third time, Dominic noticed the change that had occurred in his mind. Though therapy offered guidance, he said it was ultimately his decision to take control of his mental health. 

“The only person who can help you out of [a] terrible state is yourself,” Dominic said. “For the longest time, I wasn’t blaming myself [enough.] Not in a toxic way, but [in a way that] you need to realize you’re the one who needs to get you out of this.” 

Although Dominic felt overwhelmed again near the end of inpatient care, he reminded himself; You just gotta do it, you can’t go back. 

After four months of being absent, Dominic returned to ninth grade with the support of his teachers. That summer, he said that it was the “polar opposite” compared to the previous year. He hung out with his friends and felt more like himself. 

Since then, Dominic said he has not faced any thoughts of suicide or self-harm and has been able to get through his depressive episodes through music, socializing and reading. 

“I am extremely proud that he fought through everything,” Phillip Minneti said. “We were in that mix [of not being] sure what was going to happen — being able to get to the path of normalcy [is what] I’m most proud of.” 

“Eye-opening”

In 2023, Dominic was introduced to metal music through his friend, senior Lukas Ballas. Although Dominic had prior knowledge of the genre, attending a live show with Ballas marked a turning point in his music career. The fear of going back to school, entering society and [being] normal again was so alien to me that I couldn’t do it.[/pullquote]The fear of going back to school, entering society and [being] normal again was so alien to me that I couldn’t do it.

“It was eye-opening,” Dominic said. “I had been to shows before, but [this time] the show had a mosh pit and the energy was different from what I had seen [before.]”

Through Ballas, Dominic became engaged with a local group of metal fans on Instagram, where Ballas had been building connections with people he met at shows. This sparked Dominic’s idea of starting a band.

Their first
Dominic uses the Squire Classic Vibes ’60s jazz master guitar. When playing for Gator, he uses a Fender IT50 amp and Seymour Duncan Invader Humbucker. The humbucker is used to handle distortion while playing. (Mareya Tan)

In April 2024, Dominic decided to start a band. It was initially named Patagonicus, but because of creative differences between band members, Patagonicus fell apart. In the same month, Dominic decided to rebrand Patagonicus as Gator, becoming his solo project for a short time. 

The formation of the band was by chance. In July, a stranger from the local music group chat shared an Instagram story from a promoter in need of an opening act for an upcoming metal show — headliners: Esophagus. 

“They’re big in the slam scene,” Dominic said. “They were big enough [to] help us if we could open [for them.]”

Having two members and a logo, they reached out to the promoter assuming they weren’t going to get a reply. To their surprise, the promoter responded with the chance for them to open for the show. 

With the opportunity in their hands, they were in search of two other members to begin making music. That July, the remaining members joined — guitarist Nathan Trevino and drumist Alex Sanchez, also known as ‘Alfredo’.  

“When they got their first show announced, it was like ‘holy cow, they got something going on,’” Philip Minneti said. “He’s done something that I’ve never done before.” 

Now that the members were established, they had to prepare a 15-minute setlist before their first show in October that year. Dominic said that coming up with a single riff led to the creation of a whole song. When he first started making music, it would take him one night to create one song; now he’s able to produce songs within two hours. 

“He would have sleepless nights,” Philip Minneti said. “In the morning at 5-5:30 a.m. he was still up [while I got ready for work.] He [told me that he was up making] songs all night.”

Around 30 people filled the theater during their first show at the Haltom Theater in Haltom City, Texas. Originally, they were to play alongside Esophagus, but a last-minute tour bus broke down, leaving Dominic’s band to become the sole act that night. 

“They performed well and sounded good,” Ballas said. “[I hope that] he keeps pursuing music and keeps trying.”

Concluding their first show, Dominic described the night as nerve-wracking but fun. 

“Holden and I would get too nervous to talk, and so [we] would pass the [microphone] back and forth,” Dominic said. “There were multiple times [where] we played a song and we [announced to the crowd,] ‘We messed up.’” 

Dominic plays bass at Haltom Theater in Haltom city, Texas Oct. 04, 2025. This was Gator’s eighth show, where they were the second to last band performing.
Now alongside him

As the band continued playing together, Dominic said that they had given him motivation and confidence, such as interacting with promoters and venues. 

“His networking, it’s incredible,” Philip Minneti said. “[He’s] always had friends and close friends, [but now] he’s got hundreds of people that he’s in contact with almost daily [through music.] It’s become a way of life for [him].”

Gator has currently played eleven shows so far, becoming more comfortable on stage each time. 

“I try to remove a bit of emotion [while playing,]” Dominic said. “A lot of the nervousness came from the first show, [so by the second show] I go [on stage] and look at it as a job. My job is to entertain the audience.”

Outside of performing, his father has played a key role in supporting him with moving forward while encouraging his musical and personal growth. He participated in mosh pits and crowd surfs at one of their shows.

“I’m Uncle Phil to [Gator’s,]” Philip Minneti said. “[Seeing him on stage,] I couldn’t believe it was happening. [During] the first couple shows, watching him, [I thought] he looked like a veteran rock star.”

As Dominic continues to grow as a musician, he said he hopes to venture more into folk music using classical guitar, hoping to mix thrash metal, a subgenre of heavy metal, with shoegaze, a subgenre of indie rock. Through his lyrics, he hopes to focus on themes of mental health and his past struggles. 

“This project [was] something that I wanted to start for [the longest time,]” Dominic said. “I want it to connect with people. I want my music to be upbeat, but tell a story that can move someone.” 

On Oct. 17, his band Gator released their debut album, “Gator – Man Eater,” and is available for streaming and downloading on all digital platforms. As Dominic looks toward the future, he sees music as a creative outlet and a continued source of purpose. 

“Music helped me find myself,” Dominic said. “[With the exposure] from my dad, he’d always shown me music. It morphed me into who I am today and who I want to be.” 

Dominic plays bass at Haltom Theater in Haltom city, Texas Oct. 04, 2025. This was Gator’s eighth show, where they were the second to last band performing. (Provided by @keno_dfw)